IS THE FIRST LOOK A “MUST”?
The moment you first see each other with your future spouse on your big day is a very emotional and powerful one. It can set the tone and the mood throughout the whole day, and possibly, for your whole marriage!
Not so long ago, the only tradition when it came to the first look was at church. The couple sees each other for the first time as she walks down the aisle, while her husband-to-be waits at the altar. But a lot of things have changed recently, and although this is a very beautiful (and still admired) tradition, many couples now decide that this isn’t really meaningful for their relationship at all.
Modern couples require a newer tradition to be on the rise. This is why they appoint the special moment when they first see each other earlier in the day. Many think of this intimate experience as an opportunity to express their genuine feelings, which otherwise they might not do when so many people are around. For this reason, couples assign this special time before the ceremony begins, and usually, they use this opportunity for a photoshoot, as well.
Find out why so many couples put so much value on this moment, and how have our clients gone about it.
Brides’ and grooms’ first look is not just about the portraits
This emotional moment serves as an incredible occasion to make a short photo session and capture some authentic and heart-melting photos. The couple facing each other, a nice backdrop scenery, and good daylight promise some very special wedding snapshots. Unlike the previous tradition, when the bride and the groom first see each other during the ceremony, this special photo moment opens an opportunity for close-up portraits. Doing a first look captures the couple’s genuine expressions of excitement and surprise.
But posing and creating photo content is not the sole reason why almost half of all newlyweds decided to enjoy this moment of intimacy separately from the wedding ceremony.
Our couples often say that this moment gives them the freedom to be more emotional, as well as some time to process all their feelings. Some cry, and some laugh, but they all feel very intense emotions that they can freely express to one another.
There is no need to swallow your tears and keep on walking down the aisle, or thinking about whether your makeup needs to be fixed instead of listening to the words of the pastor. There’s absolutely no need to repress your fascination and euphoria of the bride’s and groom’s first look moment in order to proceed with the wedding protocol.
What you may want to consider before you decide on it
You get to have only one First look. As obvious as it is, if you decide to do it before the ceremony, you will lose the option to see each other for the first time at the altar. There is nothing wrong with any of the options; what is right is simply what is more appealing to you and your partner. Your ceremony is a very emotional event on its own, and will not lose any of its beauty, meaning, or intensity if you opt for a First look.
Many couples miss out on this perfect intimate moment because their wedding day agenda is cramped, but our clients don’t have such concerns. We tailor your whole program to create a leisurely and stress-free experience for you. We won’t ever rush you, make you get up too early, or make you opt out of any experience you want to have due to organizational issues. And that is just what our clients love about our service.
The First Look wedding custom provides intimacy and freedom to give into your emotions in front of your partner. Sharing such intense feelings with each other and how this new role suits you can further strengthen your relationship.
Some really amazing portraits are made during the bride and groom’s first look. You can choose the setting and lightning, which is otherwise conditioned during the ceremony. The portrait opportunity usually results in some very authentic and emotional memories that you’ll cherish forever.
If you or your partner have the tendency to cry when you get emotional, you will have enough time to freshen up before the ceremony.
Some couples are intimidated by the fact that they are actually not yet married before the ceremony is over. This is why they have second thoughts about going with this custom, as they don’t feel like they can count these photos as wedding memories. Other folks, however, find it romantic to capture the last moments of their pre-marital life.
If you or your partner are getting uncomfortable by the thought of having to repress your feelings in front of the other guests, consider dedicating this authentic first look wedding moment to yourself.
It is an emotional moment for all your loved ones
The First Look wedding tradition is not reserved only for you as a couple. Actually, it is a great way to bond and share a special moment or capture an emotional memory with your parents, siblings, or your future in-laws. There are many indoor and outdoor setting ideas that allow the presence of more than a couple of people. You can organize a meet-up where the bridesmaids' first look can take place as well. Eternalizing all those special moments will bring you so many positive feelings in the following years.
Of course, this is too much work to organize on your own, so that is why we are here to enable you to have stress-free elopement – including a wonderful and emotional First Look. There are so many things we can do to ensure you are having your tailor-made perfect wedding experience with us. If you dream about tying the knot in Maui, don’t hesitate to reach out. We would be delighted to become a part of your unique love story! Also, if you need more helpful advice, read more of our blogs.
